Prior to my move back to North America, she admitted she was afraid I’d be unhappy if I returned. I couldn’t see it then, but our colliding world-views didn’t quite match up. She pulled the plug on the relationship through an uncharacteristic fit of tears over Skype; and in retrospect, that was one of the best things she could have done for me. … More This Time, I’m not Compromising: The battle post-Korea